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MidNightBlue
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| Darkside wrote: | | I swear humans are stupid creatures. |
Yes, they are! Baka. |
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LostInWonderland
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It's funny that that's considered not knowing who you are. Sexuality can be a lot more complicated than the labels.
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MidNightBlue
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| LostInWonderland wrote: | | It's funny that that's considered not knowing who you are. Sexuality can be a lot more complicated than the labels. |
I would have to agree. I've also had my queer and questioning moments. Confused me it did. |
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LostInWonderland
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| MidNightBlue wrote: | | LostInWonderland wrote: | | It's funny that that's considered not knowing who you are. Sexuality can be a lot more complicated than the labels. |
I would have to agree. I've also had my queer and questioning moments. Confused me it did. |
See, I really haven't. But still. I guess it's part common sense and part my psychology of sexuality class...
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Darkside
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The thing is, I know I have feeling for both men and women. Been with both. Since my ex, I've questioned if I would be better with a woman... And honestly, so far, I am. Life *IS* a whole lot better X3
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MidNightBlue
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Well, leaving out the details, this is what happened ...
I was developing a huge crush this guy who turned out to be a girl. But after I found out that he was a she, I still couldn't get rid of my feelings. So then I wondered ... Am I a lesbian? [Skipping over some stuff.] And in the end I thought to myself, "Wow, I'm really shallow!"
But on the whole I'd say I've always been straight, because I probably would never have had feelings for the person if I didn't think she was a he. |
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Darkside
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My personal opinon is this; Love is Love, no matter the sex. I thought I had feelings for my ex-finacee, but as he lied and pulled away, the more my heart was torn Then I met this girl who helped me get over him and well... One thing lead to another, and <insert main idea here>... I still love this girl, even though she ended up moving away herself. But, unlike the ex, she still writes me.
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| Darkside wrote: | | My personal opinon is this; Love is Love, no matter the sex. I thought I had feelings for my ex-finacee, but as he lied and pulled away, the more my heart was torn Then I met this girl who helped me get over him and well... One thing lead to another, and <insert main idea here>... I still love this girl, even though she ended up moving away herself. But, unlike the ex, she still writes me. |
Love is love is a horrible argument.
That can be applied to any form of love deemed inappropriate (Slave/Master, Beastiality etc).
What one would want to say is that they feel how they feel because it conforms for them and the majority.
I've never really had any confusion as to what I was.
Most people have a =phase= where they try to find themselves, and then discover what exactly they are.
I just thought it was funny when die hard lesbians would proclaim their love for women only to later marry a man (and be so in love with them). |
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| DropDeadEd wrote: | | Darkside wrote: | | My personal opinon is this; Love is Love, no matter the sex. I thought I had feelings for my ex-finacee, but as he lied and pulled away, the more my heart was torn Then I met this girl who helped me get over him and well... One thing lead to another, and <insert main idea here>... I still love this girl, even though she ended up moving away herself. But, unlike the ex, she still writes me. |
Love is love is a horrible argument.
That can be applied to any form of love deemed inappropriate (Slave/Master, Beastiality etc).
What one would want to say is that they feel how they feel because it conforms for them and the majority.
I've never really had any confusion as to what I was.
Most people have a =phase= where they try to find themselves, and then discover what exactly they are.
I just thought it was funny when die hard lesbians would proclaim their love for women only to later marry a man (and be so in love with them). |
I don't care too strongly for men at this point. I honestly don't care what "lable" I'm given, but I do have love for both genders, more woman than it is man at this point. Men are idiots that cant comperhend a woman's emotionand they only care about sex. And, I'm sorry, I'm going to be REALLY open about this because I don't want this to happen to ANYONE else, but... I was raped by my ex. And I wasn't mentally strong or brave to tell anyone until it was too late. So, yeah, I'm going to be bitter towards the male gender.
And for the so-called hard core lesbians that end up marrying a man... They've been lying to themselves and their so-called lesbian lover. You are either going to be with a man or woman. Yeah, there's bisexuality, but if you ARE a lesbian, you LOVE women, not men too... Dumb bitches. I've seen too many of those type women.
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MidNightBlue
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Can't say that I've ever been raped before, although some of my friends tell me that my approach to relationships seem to be that of someone who's had some traumatic past experience, although I haven't.
As for lesbians who marry men, even my slight incident with my queer and questioning moment was enough to throw me into utter confusion, so I really can't say I would look down on anyone for changing their minds.
It can be a really tough topic to be butting your head against. I'm just happy for those that finally found a solution to their problems, may they live long and prosper. |
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| Darkside wrote: |
Love is love is a horrible argument.
That can be applied to any form of love deemed inappropriate (Slave/Master, Beastiality etc).
What one would want to say is that they feel how they feel because it conforms for them and the majority.
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I disagree. It wouldnt have been love if you need to conform to the majority. It's supposed to be personal, an equation for two people. The others are not involved.
whether others approve or disapprove your love only affects your freedom to live that love...
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I can;t help but feel sorry for you D...but I dont think ALL men are like that. Well, sure MOST men do think about only sex but I do think that there are still a few others who think differently...
And just a perception... Wouldnt you be, by any chance, mistaking her friendship for love??? I mean, true friends would always help you through the darkest parts of your life... 
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| Shiine-chan wrote: | I can;t help but feel sorry for you D...but I dont think ALL men are like that. Well, sure MOST men do think about only sex but I do think that there are still a few others who think differently...
And just a perception... Wouldnt you be, by any chance, mistaking her friendship for love??? I mean, true friends would always help you through the darkest parts of your life... |
Well, my friend and I were talking and yeah.... We both had feelings for each other, but I was too stupid and scared to openly admit to myself that I AM bi. She knows I have feelings for her to this day. And I told her flat out tonight after she was telling me stuff about her and her husband that YES I find her VERY attractive and if I had my way with thngs, I'd take her right then and there, being everything she'd ever wish for. Though, that's where my loyality and honor kicks in and don't do a damn thing to break open now what we call our sisterhood. She's my best friend and I don't think that can ever change.
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